Would you change anything?

I have a question. If I asked you if you would go back and change anything in your life what would your response be? I have often pondered this very question and I would truly say, I would change nothing. Why? Of course there are events in my life that did not turn out exactly the way I would have ideally planned but look what happened when they didn't.

Prime example, Being able to have biological children. Yes, do not get me wrong that It would have been a wonderful experience. Knowing the feeling of having your babies grow inside you is a wonderful thought. Think about this angle though, If I could have birthed my own children, where would Chanlder be now? And could I love a biological child more than Chandler? Well I cringe to think of the answer to the first question but can definitely tell you the answer to the second. NO, I could not love a biological child more than Chandler. In fact the opposite might just very well be true. I really appreciate Chandler because of all the wait and heartache we went through to get him. So yes I may love him more.

Anyway back to the big picture, All the experiences we have had in our lives good or bad, did we not learn something from them. More importantly did they not make us exactly who we are today? I think so. Ask yourself that very question.